Hardships and obstacles suck. Hardships and obstacles do not define me.
They don’t. I have faced , stared down and climbed over some icky stuff. That stuff is not how I am pigeon holed or defined by anyone.
So it is with with a headache that I listen to people come to me and proudly crow
1. I am a VICTEM of domestic violence
2. My child is disabled
3. I can’t take care of my stuff
4. I won’t take care of my stuff
5. I cant face reality because I am hiding behind excuses…
Pick up your stuff and get a move on.
Better times are down the road , start walking.