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BAD MOM Alert

Please dip me in boiling alcohol – I may never feel clean again.

She self aborted her last child then complained that she had a uterine infection, yesterday she called 911 when her 8 year old son would not get dressed, she drops the kids off at state funded child care and then goes home to sleep, she has an iPhone and manicure but her kids wear clothes with holes.  AND SHE IS 8 MONTHS PREGNANT AGAIN.

I am going to be ill.

 

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Abortion as a Basic Right for Homeless Women

Here is where I remind you that this is MY PERSONAL VIEW, and that you are oh, so welcome to comment.  Abortion is one of the few topics EVERYONE has an oppinion on and I remember seeing a bumper sticker on Merry’s jeep when I was in High school that said “An Aborted Baby Will Never Have a Nice Day” with a smiley face on it.

Often, being homeless means being cut off from health care. It means that you get infections that go untreated and neglect basic physical health care and almost never see a gynecologist. When I worked on Skid Row in LA I was thrilled at the rare occasions I could connect someone with a Gyno appt at The Salvation Army Women’s Clinic.

Being Homeless does not mean you are sexless. All the basic urges and needs remain intact. More importantly: women who are poor or homeless are more likely to turn to the sex-trade than other demographics.

Unless you think the idea of poor homeless hookers having babies is a reasonable alternative to offering them birth control and abortions…I don’t see what the drama is.

Of course, not all poor women are homeless, nor are they hookers, but they do deserve the right to see specialists in women’s health and to be able to protect their health via condoms, Nor-Plant, The Pill, IUD’s, and pap-smears, just like their counter-parts with private health insurance have access to.

Women who go to Planned Parenthood are taking the first basic steps to caring for themselves. I have gone to Planned Parenthood for birth control and  had pelvic exams there and they have always asked about and encouraged me to see a general practitioner. 

for the record: Planned Parenthood also provides  general health care services including

  • anemia testing
  • cholesterol screening
  • diabetes screening
  • employment and sports physicals
  • flu vaccination
  • high blood pressure screening
  • physical exams
  • pregnancy planning services
  • smoking cessation
  • tetanus vaccination
  • thyroid screening

Men’s Health Services include :

  • checkups for reproductive or sexual health problems
  • colon cancer screening
  • erectile dysfunction services, including education, exams, treatment, and referral
  • jock itch exam and treatment
  • male infertility screening and referral
  • premature ejaculation services, including education, exams, treatment, and referral
  • routine physical exams
  • testicular cancer screenings
  • prostate cancer screenings
  • urinary tract infections testing and treatment
  • vasectomy

Planned Parenthood also runs Street Smart, a two-year HIV prevention program for at risk youth. Street Smart is recognized by the Center for Disease Control and the Diffusion of Effective Behavioral Interventions (DEBI) as a program that reduces substance use and the number of unprotected sexual acts among homeless youth, thereby reducing the risk of HIV.

Information on Planned Parenthood is from their web site: www.plannedparenthood.org

the initial article that made me want to write this is : http://www.lifenews.com/state3718.html

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aarrggh – what it’s really like to be a Social Worker

Don’t pick this job.  Do something easy, like rocket science. You know, where there are absolutes and the figures always add up. Do something where if you mess it up, only seven people die at a time.

Being homeless is hell. People die of starvation and exposure every day.  It is a big gaping pit that tries to suck you and everyone around you into it’s miseery like a black hole in space. Nothing is linear, nothing makes sence and everything is just crazy.  Desperation, fear, begging your friends and family for small kindnesses, losing self esteem, and suffering incredible violence.  Homelessness includes all of these things.

Today my job was working with women who discovered:

Homelessness means you call perfect strangers that other strangers say can help you.  Being homeless and in a shelter means I will talk to you as I drive my daughter to school so that you can hear a friendly voice before you walk into the DPSS and throw yourself on the mercy of “the system”.

Being without a permanent and secure place of your own means that you sometimes have to choose a roof  and walls for your children -  that you pay for by being a punching bag if your shelter provider is violent. Where are you going to go? A good parent does what is best for their children, right? It means that you come into my office still bleeding from the beating your father gave you for applying for housing and food. It means that you go through a box of Kleenex and tell me every ugly event from the past month while I call to find you Domestic Violence help, emergency shelter and  my coworkers start calling every inpatient mental health/domestic violence/ substance abuse provider we have even heard a rumor about.  And then I tell the abuser waiting in the lobby that he can’t know where you and your baby have gone.

Being homeless means you have to abort your baby because you can’t afford to feed the child you already have. You are afraid that if you  find employment : you will lose the job if you take maternity leave in the first year.

Being homeless means that you have tried everything you can do on your own and now you are reaching out for help.

This is what being The Help does to me. I made this video on Saturday.

Today this woman came in and I reached out and found a miracle.  In your prayers tonight, thank God for PATH Achieve.

By the time I came home tonight I thought I was having an aneurysm. I had a migraine so bad that I could barely see and so many knots in me that I walked like Quasi Moto.  I walked in , dropped into my chair and pulled my child onto my lap and held on tight.

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Texas says Jails are better than Foster Care?

Okay, I teased you, This is really a story of sex and slavery. An 11 year old girl ran away from foster care and moved in with a man in his thirties.  She then got STD’s , two abortions and was arrested for offering to blow a cop for $20.

Although it seems the older guy was her Pimp, Texas is ignoring him and focusing on how a child too young to legally consent to sex is legally liable for trying to engage in it for money.

For more information on the author, Amanda Kloer go here

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